JUNE 14 – Wisdom Over Anger
3-Year-Bible Reading: Proverbs 17:25–26; Psalm 69; 1 Samuel 16//
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“A foolish son brings grief to his father, and a quarrelsome wife is like the constant dripping of a leaky roof. One who has knowledge restrains his words, and a man of understanding is calm.” — Proverbs 17:25–27 (ESV)
“Save me, O God, for the waters have come up to my neck. I sink in deep mire, where there is no foothold; I have come into deep waters, and the flood sweeps over me.” — Psalm 69:1–2 (ESV)
“But the Lord said to Samuel, ‘Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.’” — 1 Samuel 16:7 (ESV)
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Sometimes life feels like a storm you can’t control. You might get frustrated with parents, siblings, friends, or even yourself. Proverbs 17:25–27 reminds us that foolish words and unchecked anger only make problems worse, while wisdom and calmness protect both you and others. In Psalm 69, David describes feeling overwhelmed, like he’s drowning in problems, yet he turns to God for rescue. And in 1 Samuel 16, God reminds us—and Samuel—that what really matters isn’t appearances or what others think, but the condition of the heart.
These passages teach us that it’s okay to feel frustrated or weighed down, but how we respond matters. Acting in anger or pride may make things worse, but seeking God, listening, and responding with patience and understanding can turn a storm into an opportunity for growth. Your heart, more than your image or your reactions, is what God cares about most.
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THINK ABOUT IT
1. Control Your Words: How can you respond calmly instead of reacting in anger when conflicts arise (Proverbs 17:25–27)?
2. Seek God in Overwhelm: When life feels like it’s “flooding over” you (Psalm 69:1–2), what practical steps can you take to rely on God instead of panic or frustration?
3. Focus on the Heart: How does remembering that God looks at your heart (1 Samuel 16:7) change the way you handle peer pressure or the desire to impress others?
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BOTTOM LINE
Wisdom, patience, and a heart aligned with God guide you through life’s storms and help you respond rather than react.
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PRAYER
Heavenly Father, thank You for seeing my heart and not just my mistakes or appearance. Help me control my words and actions, trust You when life feels overwhelming, and focus on growing a heart that pleases You. Teach me to respond with wisdom and patience in every situation. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
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Welcome to Bible Chat, where we
have devotional conversations
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rooted in Scripture and relevant
for today, June 14th.
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Wisdom over anger.
Life can feel like a storm
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sometimes.
Maybe it’s a parent who doesn’t
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understand you, a sibling who
drives you absolutely crazy, a
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friend who betrayed your trust,
a situation at school that feels
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completely unfair.
And in those moments, the
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pressure to react, to say
something sharp, to fight back,
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to let people know exactly how
you feel is intense.
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Proverbs chapter 17, verses 25
to 27 give us a picture of what
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wisdom looks like in those
moments.
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One who has knowledge restrains
his words, and a man of
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understanding is calm,
restraint, calmness.
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These aren’t signs of weakness
or passivity.
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They’re signs of a person who
knows who they are, who their
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God is, and that not every
moment requires a reaction.
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David describes the opposite
feeling in Psalm 69 verses one
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and two.
Save me, oh God, for the waters
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have come up to my neck.
I sink in deep mire where there
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is no foothold.
He feels completely overwhelmed,
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like he’s drowning, and he
doesn’t pretend otherwise.
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He doesn’t perform.
He goes directly to God with the
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full weight of it.
That honesty with God in the
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middle of being overwhelmed is
not weakness, it’s wisdom.
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It’s saying, I can’t handle this
alone and I’m not going to
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pretend I can.
And then there’s one of the most
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powerful verses in all of
Scripture for those who feel
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judged by appearances or
misunderstood by people.
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First Samuel chapter 16 verse 7,
God speaks to Samuel and says do
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not look on his appearance or on
the height of his stature
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because I have rejected him.
For the Lord sees not as man
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sees.
Man looks on the outward
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appearance, but the Lord looks
on the heart.
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God is not evaluating you by
your performance, your grades,
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your social status or how you
look in front of people.
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He sees your heart.
So here’s the invitation.
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When life brings storms, bring
them to God before you bring
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them to your social media.
Respond rather than react.
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Choose calm over conflict.
Let people misunderstand you if
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they need to, because the One
who truly sees you sees
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everything, and he’s working
something in you, even in the
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hard moments.
Let’s pray.
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Heavenly Father, thank you for
seeing our hearts and not just
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our behavior when we feel
overwhelmed.
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Teach us to bring that to You
before we react.
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Help us to restrain our words
when anger wants to take over
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and to trust that you are
working even in the middle of
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our storms.
Guard our hearts in our mouths
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and help us respond with wisdom
in Jesus name, Amen.
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Now I invite you to spend time
with God in today’s three-year
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Bible reading plan.
Proverbs Chapter 17 Verses 25 to
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26 World English Bible A foolish
son brings grief to his father
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and bitterness to her who bore
him.
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Also to punish the righteous is
not good, nor to flog officials
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for their integrity.
Psalm Chapter 69 World English
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Bible Save me God, for the
waters have come up to my neck.
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I sink in deep mire where there
is no foothold.
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I have come into deep waters
where the floods overflow me.
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I am weary with my crying.
My throat is dry, My eyes fail
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looking for my God.
Those who hate me without a
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cause are more than the hairs of
my head.
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Those who want to cut me off,
being my enemies wrongfully, are
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mighty.
I have to restore what I didn’t
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take away.
God, you know my foolishness.
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My sins aren’t hidden from you.
Don’t let those who wait for you
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be shamed through me.
Lord Yahweh of armies, don’t let
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those who seek you be brought to
dishonor through me, God of
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Israel, because for your sake I
have borne reproach.
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Shame has covered my face.
I have become a stranger to my
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brothers, an alien to my
mother’s children, For the zeal
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of your house consumes me.
The reproaches of those who
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reproach you have fallen on me.
When I wept and I fasted, that
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was to my reproach.
When I made sackcloth my
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clothing, I became a byword to
them.
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Those who sit in the gate talk
about me.
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I am the song of the drunkards.
But As for me, my prayer is to
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you, Yahweh, in an acceptable
time.
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God, in the abundance of Your
loving kindness, answer me.
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In the truth of Your salvation,
Deliver me out of the mire and
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don’t let me sink.
Let me be delivered from those
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who hate me and out of the deep
waters.
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Don’t let the flood waters
overwhelm me, neither Let the
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deep swallow me up.
Don’t let the pit shut its mouth
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on me.
Answer me, Yahweh, for Your
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loving kindness is good.
According to the multitude of
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Your tender mercies.
Turn to me.
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Don’t hide Your face from Your
servant, for I am in distress.
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Answer me speedily.
Draw near to my soul and redeem
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it.
Ransom me because of my enemies.
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You know my reproach, my shame,
and my dishonor.
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My adversaries are all before
you.
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Reproach has broken my heart,
and I am full of heaviness.
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I looked for some to take pity,
but there was none for
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comforters.
But I found none.
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They also gave me poison for my
food.
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In my thirst.
They gave me vinegar to drink.
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Let their table before them
become a snare.
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May it become a retribution and
a trap.
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Let their eyes be darkened so
that they can’t see.
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Let their backs be continually
bent.
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Pour out your indignation on
them.
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Let the fierceness of your anger
overtake them.
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Let their habitation be
desolate.
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Let no one dwell in their tents,
for they persecute him whom you
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have wounded.
They tell of the sorrow of those
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whom you have hurt.
Charge them with crime upon
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crime.
Don’t let them come into your
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righteousness.
Let them be blotted out of the
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book of life and not be written
with the righteous.
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But I am in pain and distress.
Let your salvation God protect
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me.
I will praise the name of God
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with a song and will magnify him
with Thanksgiving.
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It will please Yahweh better
than an ox or a bull that has
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horns and hoofs.
The humble have seen it and are
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glad.
You who seek after God, let your
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heart live.
For Yahweh hears the needy and
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doesn’t despise his captive
people.
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Let heaven and earth praise Him,
the seas and everything that
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moves therein.
For God will save Zion and build
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the cities of Judah.
They shall settle there and own
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it.
The children also of His
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servants shall inherit it.
Those who love His name shall
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dwell therein.
First Samuel chapter 16 World
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English Bible Yahweh said to
Samuel, How long will you mourn
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for Saul, since I have rejected
him from being king over Israel?
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Fill your horn with oil and go.
I will send you to Jesse the
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Bethlehemite, for I have
provided a king for myself among
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his sons.
Samuel said How can I go?
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If Saul hears it, he will kill
me.
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Yahweh said Take a heifer with
you and say I have come to
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sacrifice to Yahweh.
Call Jesse to the sacrifice and
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I will show you what you shall
do.
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You shall anoint to me him whom
I name to you.
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Samuel did that which Yahweh
spoke and came to Bethlehem.
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The elders of the city came to
meet him trembling and said, Do
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you come peaceably?
He said peaceably I have come to
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sacrifice to Yahweh, Sanctify
yourselves and come with me to
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the sacrifice.
He sanctified Jesse and his sons
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and called them to the
sacrifice.
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When they had come, he looked at
a leab and said, Surely Yahweh’s
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anointed is before him.
But Yahweh said to Samuel, don’t
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look on his face or on the
height of his stature, because I
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have rejected him.
For I don’t see as man sees, For
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man looks at the outward
appearance, but Yahweh looks at
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the heart.
Then Jesse called AB an adab and
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made him pass before Samuel.
He said, Yahweh has not chosen
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this one either.
Then Jesse made Shama to pass
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by.
He said Yahweh has not chosen
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this one either.
Jesse made seven of his sons to
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pass before Samuel.
Samuel said to Jesse, Yahweh has
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not chosen these.
Samuel said to Jesse, are all
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your children here?
He said, there remains yet the
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youngest.
Behold, he is keeping the sheep.
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Samuel said to Jesse, send and
get him, for we will not sit
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down until he comes here.
He sent and brought him in.
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Now he was ready with a handsome
face and good appearance.
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Yahweh said, Arise, anoint him,
for this is he.
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Then Samuel took the horn of oil
and anointed him in the middle
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of his brothers.
Then Yahweh’s spirit came
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mightily on David from that day
forward.
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So Samuel rose up and went to
Rama.
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Now Yahweh’s spirit departed
from Saul, and an evil spirit
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from Yahweh troubled him.
Saul’s servant said to him, See
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now an evil spirit from God
troubles you.
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Let our Lord now command your
servants who are in front of you
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to seek out a man who is a
skillful player on the harp.
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Then when the evil spirit from
God is on you, he will play with
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his hand, and you will be well.
Saul said to his servants,
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Provide me now a man who can
play well, and bring him to me.
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Then one of the young men
answered and said, Behold, I
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have seen a son of Jesse the
Bethlehemite, who is skillful in
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playing, a mighty man of valor,
a man of war, prudent in speech,
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and a handsome person, and
Yahweh is with him.
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Therefore Saul sent messengers
to Jesse and said, Send me
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David, your son, who is with the
sheep.
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Jesse took a donkey loaded with
bread and a container of wine
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and a young goat and sent them
by David his son to Saul.
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David came to Saul and stood
before him.
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He loved him greatly and he
became his armor bearer.
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Saul sent to Jesse saying,
Please let David stand before
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me, for he has found favor in my
sight.
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When the Spirit from God was on
Saul, David took the harp and
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played with his hand.
So Saul was refreshed and was
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well, and the evil spirit
departed from him.
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everyday life.
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you, share it with a friend and
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you won’t miss the next
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Until next time, stay rooted in
truth, anchored in hope, and
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walking daily with Jesus.

