June 27 – Friends Who Shape Your Story

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Welcome to Bible Chat, where we
have devotional conversations

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rooted in Scripture and relevant
for today, June 27th.

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Friends who shape your story.
There’s a phrase that’s been

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said so many times it almost
lost its meaning, but it’s still

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completely true.
You become like the people you

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spend the most time with.
Your habits, your language, your

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values, your ambitions, even
your faith, all of it is quietly

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shaped by who you’re doing life
with.

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That’s not scary.
It’s just true.

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And it means that choosing your
friends is one of the most

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important decisions you’ll ever
make.

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Proverbs chapter 18, verse 24
cuts right to it.

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A man of many companions may
come to ruin, but there is a

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friend who sticks closer than a
brother.

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Having a lot of people around
you isn’t the same as having

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real friendship.
Popularity is not the same as

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loyalty.
Some of the loneliest people

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have the most followers.
What the human soul actually

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needs is that rare kind of
friend, the one who shows up

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when things fall apart, who
tells you the truth even when

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it’s uncomfortable, who actually
sticks.

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First Samuel chapter 29 gives us
an unexpected illustration of

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this.
David found himself in a

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complicated situation aligned
with the Philistines in a way

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that could have forced him to
fight against his own people,

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Israel.
And in First Samuel chapter 29,

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verses 4 and 5, the Philistine
commanders actually intervened

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and sent David away from the
battle.

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His companions urged him to
leave, essentially protecting

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him from a situation that would
have put him in an impossible

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position.
Sometimes the protection of a

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true friend looks like them
steering you away from

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something, even when it’s
inconvenient, even when it

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creates friction, even when you
don’t fully understand why

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they’re pushing back.
That’s not betrayal.

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That’s loyalty that looks
further down the road than you

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can see in the moment.
The flip side of receiving that

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kind of friendship is being that
kind of friend.

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Being the person in someone
else’s life who says the hard

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thing, who doesn’t just go along
to get along, who cares enough

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about your friend’s future to
risk your present comfort for

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it.
That’s rare, and it’s worth

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intentionally cultivating.
It means being honest when

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honesty is needed, even when
it’s easier to just agree.

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It means showing up when things
are messy, not just when things

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are fun.
It means praying for your

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friends, not just hanging out
with them.

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And here’s the anchor under all
of this.

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The verse doesn’t just tell you
to find good friends.

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It points toward the friend who
sticks closer than any brother,

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because ultimately, no human
friendship, no matter how good,

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can fully carry the weight of
what our souls need.

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God’s friendship is the
foundation.

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Human friendship is the gift
that flows out of it.

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Build your circle carefully, Be
the kind of friend you want to

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have, and root all of it in the
One who never leaves.

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Let’s pray.
Heavenly Father, thank you for

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the gift of friendship and for
being the friend who sticks

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closer than anyone.
Help us to choose our close

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relationships wisely, to
recognize the people who

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genuinely want what’s best for
us, and to be that kind of

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friend to others.
In return, give us the courage

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to speak truth in love and the
loyalty to show up when things

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are hard.
Root all our friendships in you,

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in Jesus name, Amen.
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meant to be ruled by fear, but
covered by the presence and

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authority of God?
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Now I invite you to spend time
with God in today’s three-year

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Bible reading plan.
Proverbs chapter 18 verses 23 to

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24 world English Bible The poor
plead for mercy, but the rich

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answer harshly.
A man of many companions may be

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ruined, but there is a friend
who sticks closer than a

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brother.
First Samuel Chapter 29 World

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English Bible Now the
Philistines gathered together

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all their armies to effect, and
the Israelites encamped by the

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spring which is in Jezreel.
The Lords of the Philistines

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passed on by hundreds and by
thousands, and David and his men

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passed on in the rear with a
chish.

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Then the Princess of the
Philistines said, What about

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these Hebrews?
A chish said to the Princess of

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the Philistines, Isn’t this
David the servant of Saul the

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king of Israel, who has been
with me these days, or rather

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these years?
I have found no fault in him

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since he fell away until today,
but the Princess of the

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Philistines were angry with him,
and the Princess of the

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Philistines said to him, make
the man return.

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That he may go back.
To his place where you have

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appointed him, and let him not
go down with us to battle, lest

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in the battle he become an
adversary to us.

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For with what should this fellow
reconcile himself to his Lord?

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Should it not be with the heads
of these men?

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Isn’t this David, of whom people
sang to one another in dances,

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saying, Saul has slain his
thousands and David his ten

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thousands?
Then a chish called David and

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said to him, As Yahweh lives,
you have been upright, and

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you’re going out, and you’re
coming in with me.

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And the army is good in my
sight.

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For I have not found evil in you
since the day of your coming to

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me.
To this day, nevertheless, the

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Lords don’t favor you.
Therefore now return and go in

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peace, that you not displease
the Lords of the Philistines.

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David said to Achish.
But what have I done?

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What have you found in your
servants so long as I have been

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before you to this day, that I
may not go and fight against the

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enemies of my Lord the King?
Achish answered David, I know

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that you are good in my sight as
an Angel of God.

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Notwithstanding the Princess of
the Philistines have said he

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shall not go up with us to the
battle.

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Therefore now rise up early in
the morning with the servants of

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your Lord who have come with
you, and as soon as you are up

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early in the morning and have
light, depart.

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So David rose up early, he and
his men to depart in the morning

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to return into the land of the
Philistines, And the Philistines

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went up to Jezreel.
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