MAY 6 – Living Beyond Self
3-Year-Bible Reading: Proverbs 15:20–21; 1 Corinthians 8–9
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“The wise of heart will receive commandments, but a babbling fool will come to ruin. The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty.” — Proverbs 15:20–21 (ESV)
“Now concerning food offered to idols: we know that ‘all of us possess knowledge.’ Knowledge puffs up, but love builds up. If anyone imagines that he knows something, he does not yet know as he ought to know.” — 1 Corinthians 8:1–2 (ESV)
“Do you not know that those who run in a race all run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it. Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable.” — 1 Corinthians 9:24–25 (ESV)
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It’s easy to get caught up in thinking about what you want—what looks cool, what feels fun, or what seems easiest. But Proverbs 15:20–21 reminds us that being wise and diligent has lasting value, while rushing into things without thought can bring problems. In 1 Corinthians 8, Paul warns that knowledge without love can hurt others; what we do or say can either build someone up or tear them down. And in 1 Corinthians 9, he compares life to a race, showing that self-control and discipline matter if we want to win something eternal.
Living beyond yourself means thinking about how your choices affect others and committing to long-term growth over instant gratification. It’s choosing patience over impulse, love over pride, and purpose over short-term fun. Even when it’s hard, these small, wise decisions add up to a life that reflects God’s heart and makes a difference for those around you.
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THINK ABOUT IT
1. Think Before You Act: Are there areas in your life where you act quickly without thinking about the consequences (Proverbs 15:21)? How can planning and diligence change the outcome?
2. Love Over Knowledge: How can you use what you know to build others up rather than show off (1 Corinthians 8:1–2)?
3. Run the Right Race: What does self-control look like in your daily life, and how can practicing it now prepare you for bigger victories (1 Corinthians 9:24–25)?
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BOTTOM LINE
True success comes from wise choices, self-control, and loving others, not just chasing what feels good in the moment.
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PRAYER
Heavenly Father, thank You for guiding me with Your wisdom and showing me the importance of love and discipline. Help me make choices that honor You, build up others, and lead me toward the goals You have for my life. Give me patience, self-control, and a heart that seeks Your eternal prize above temporary pleasures. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
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Welcome to Bible Chat, where we
have devotional conversations
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rooted in scripture and relevant
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Today, May 6th, Living beyond
self what if one of the clearest
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signs of spiritual maturity is
not how much you know, but how
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much love shapes what you do
with what you know?
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It is possible to?
Be right and still hurt people.
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It is possible to be.
Gifted and still selfish.
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It is.
Possible to run fast but in the
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wrong direction.
Proverbs chapter 15 verses 20 to
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21 speaks about wisdom,
diligence, and the danger of
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foolishness.
First Corinthians chapter 8
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verses one to two says knowledge
puffs up, but love builds up.
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If anyone imagines that he knows
something he does not yet know,
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as he ought to know, then First
Corinthians Chapter 9 verses 24
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to 25 compares life to a race,
saying that runners run to
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receive a prize and every
athlete exercises self-control.
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That gives us a powerful picture
of Christian life.
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God is not just calling you to
avoid bad things.
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He is calling you to live with
purpose, to think about how your
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choices affect others, to use
your freedom with love to
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discipline your desires instead
of being dragged around by them.
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This matters in everyday life.
Before you post, ask if it
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builds up.
Before you speak, ask if love is
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guiding you.
Before you make a choice, ask
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whether it helps you run the
race God has marked out for you.
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Not every fun thing is fruitful.
Not every popular thing is wise.
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Not every freedom should be used
just because you have it.
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Living beyond self means
choosing long term faithfulness
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over short term attention.
It means saying no sometimes,
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not because God wants to ruin
your joy, but because He is
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training you for something
eternal.
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Let’s pray, Heavenly Father,
help me live beyond myself.
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Let love shape what I say, what
I choose, and how I treat
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others.
Give me self-control to run the
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race you have set before me.
Keep me from pride, impulse, and
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selfish freedom.
Teach me to build others up and
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to seek the eternal prize that
comes from following you
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faithfully in Jesus name, Amen.
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Proverbs chapter 15 verses 20 to
21 World English Bible A wise
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son makes a father glad, but a
foolish man despises his mother.
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Folly is joy to one who is void
of wisdom, but a man of
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understanding keeps his way
straight.
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First Corinthians chapters 8 to
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concerning things sacrifice to
idols.
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We know that we all have
knowledge.
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Knowledge puffs up, but love
builds up.
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But if anyone thinks that he
knows anything, he doesn’t yet
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know, as he ought to know.
But if anyone loves God, the
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same is known by him.
Therefore, concerning the eating
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of things sacrificed to idols,
we know that no idol is anything
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in the world, and that there is
no other God but one.
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For though there are things that
are called gods, whether in the
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heavens or on earth, as there
are many gods and many Lords,
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yet to us there is one God, the
Father, of whom are all things,
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and we for Him, and 1 Lord Jesus
Christ, through whom are all
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things, and we live through Him.
However, that knowledge isn’t in
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all men, but some with
consciousness of the idol, until
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now eat as of a thing sacrificed
to an idol, and their conscience
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being weak, is defiled.
But food will not commend us to
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God.
For neither if we don’t eat are
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we the worse, nor if we eat are
we the better.
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But be careful that by no means
does this liberty of yours
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become a stumbling block to the
weak.
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For if a man sees you who have
knowledge sitting in an idol’s
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temple, won’t his conscience, if
he is weak, be emboldened to eat
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things sacrificed to idols?
And through your knowledge he
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who is weak perishes the brother
for whose sake Christ died, thus
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sinning against the brothers and
wounding their conscience.
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When it is weak, you sin against
Christ.
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Therefore, if food causes my
brother to stumble, I will eat
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no meat forever more that I
don’t cause my brother to
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stumble.
Am I not free?
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Am I not an apostle?
Haven’t I seen Jesus Christ our
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Lord?
Aren’t you my work in the Lord?
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If to others I am not an apostle
yet, at least I am to you, for
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you are the seal of my
apostleship in the Lord.
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My defense to those who examine
me is this Have we no right to
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eat and to drink?
Have we no right to take along a
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wife who is a believer, even as
the rest of the apostles and the
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brothers of the Lord and Cephas,
or have only bar Nabas, and I
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know right to not work?
What soldier ever serves at his
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own expense who plants a
vineyard and doesn’t eat of its
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fruit?
Or who feeds A flock and doesn’t
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drink from the flock’s milk?
Do I speak these things
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according to the ways of men, or
doesn’t the Law also say the
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same thing?
For it is written in the law of
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Moses.
You shall not muzzle an ox while
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it treads out the grain.
Is it for the oxen that God
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cares, or does he say it
assuredly for our sake?
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Yes, it was written for our
sake, because he who ploughs
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ought to plough in hope, and he
who threshes in hope should
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partake of his hope.
If we sowed to you spiritual
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things, is it a great thing if
we reap your fleshly things?
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If others partake of this right
over you, don’t we yet more?
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Nevertheless, we didn’t use this
right, but we bear all things
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that we may cause no hindrance
to the good news of Christ.
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Don’t you know that those who
serve around sacred things eat
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from the things of the temple,
and those who wait on the altar
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have their portion with the
altar?
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Even so, the Lord ordained that
those who proclaim the good news
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should live from the good news.
But I have used none of these
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things, and I don’t write these
things that it may be done so in
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my case, For I would rather die
than that anyone should make my
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boasting void.
For if I preach the good news, I
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have nothing to boast about, for
necessity is laid on me.
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But woe is to me if I don’t
preach the good news.
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For if I do this, of my own will
I have a reward, but if not of
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my own will I have a stewardship
entrusted to me.
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What then is my reward?
That when I preach the good
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news, I may present the good
news of Christ without charge,
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so as not to abuse my authority
in the good news.
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For though I was free from all,
I brought myself under bondage
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to all that I might gain the
more to the Jews I became as a
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Jew.
That I might gain Jews to those
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who are under the law as under
the law.
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That I might gain those who are
under the law to those who are
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without law as without law, not
being without law toward God,
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but under law toward Christ.
That I might win those who are
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without law to the weak I became
as weak.
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That I might gain the weak.
I have become all things to all
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men, that I may by all means
save some.
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Now I do this for the sake of
the good news, that I may be a
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joint partaker of it.
Don’t you know that those who
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run in a race all run but one
receives the prize?
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Run like that, that you may win.
Every man who strives in the
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games exercises self-control in
all things.
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Now they do it to receive a
corruptible crown, but we an
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incorruptible.
I therefore run like that, not
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aimlessly, I fight like that,
not beating the air, but I beat
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my body and bring it into
submission, lest by any means,
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after I have preached to others,
I myself should be rejected.
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